What does it mean to have a child behavior problem? According to James Lehman, the creator of the award winning Total Transformation Program, a child raising tool, it’s when your child acts out or is abusive because he or she doesn’t know how to solve problems on their own. The way a kid compensates for this is to yell, scream, hit, swear, and many other types of behavior. This is not acceptable, and must be stopped. The best way to do this is to help your child grow up and learn to solve their own problems. You need to give them the tools to do this, it’s your responsibility as a parent. If you don’t do it, who’s going to? You can’t leave it up to the teachers, or administrators at the school. You can’t expect his or her Sunday School teacher to do it. You’ve got to take the problem on yourself.